Wow, what a lady? i mean how brave a girl and later a lady she was. Arguing with someone as great as Mohandas Karamchand Gandhi, if you know him, is next to impossible. But she had the guts to do so, accompnied with her extreme confidence in herself and her views so open and her foresight to everything, so perfect. Yes, I am talking about our beloved "Ba", Kasturba Mohandas Gandhi.
I dont blog often, but when i recently heard someone talking of liberalization of woman and woman still treated in-humanly, i recollected the deeds of this great lady, in times when women were barely allowed to speak. Kasturba as a child was not educated at all, so much so, she didnt even know to read or write. But she had the ability to understand the situation, observe the people around and behave accordingly. She as a lady never felt helpless, whatever situation she was in, sometimes as a wife, sometimes as a mother, n many a times a co-ordinate of Gandhiji. She on one situation, right after her marrying to Mohandas at the age of 9, made it clear to her husband (Mohandas) that she is just not any other girl, who can be dominated by her husband. Undoubtedly, she too thought of her husband as GOD for her, but she expected her husband to maintain a similar image.
Even today, after 60 years of independence, we speak of liberty of women, their rights, the level of freedom they should enjoy bla, bla, bla.... but do you think, the woman of today is really independent. I know, many wont agree to what i say, but the fact remains the fact. there are many brave ladies in this age, who enjoy all the freedom they should and are living their lives Queen size, but what about the majority? here I am not talking of the girls and ladies living in remote areas of the country, but my finger is pointing to the ladies whom we see in local trains, BEST buses, on the roads, in the markets, in shopping malls...... Ask them to self-analyse thier life as to how happy they are, with the type of life they live, and u'll know, as to not even 50% of the ladies will answer positive. Have we ever tried to know the root cause of this problem? Why is the case that man still try supressing women when they walk shoulder to shoulder in every walk of life.
Is it only coz we believe that India is a male dominated country or is there something else? i think one major reason for it is, woman herself isnt aware of what she wants, what she deserves and what is she getting. the day when she gets answer to all these questions, world would be a much better place for her to live in.
wats ur take on it?
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gr8
loved it
ofcoz women doesnt recognise the fire until she turns 30-35
which is probably to late
so the bst way is knowledge
which is Educate
women should be educated it just doesnt change her point of view towards life bt she will also raise her children in such a way tht he can be a good man n make the world a betta place to live
D situation sometimes is much more complex.Its not only about wot she wants, wot she deserves and wot she is getting. Many a times a woman knows wot she wants and deserves but at the same time she is bound by many relations and in turn to the obligations of those relations that do not let her get what she wants. She might strive for it but in the end if she is hurting or is in the process of losing a loved one, she might quit as well. This, I assume, is the scenarion with most of educated middle class ladies/women/girls of Indian society. I mean wot if a girl has mind of her own, knows wot exactly she wants from life but her parents/spouses are "society-minded" people who think dat wot dere daughter/wyf wants is not ryt in d society's eyes. Parents even go to the extent of saying dere daughters dat "ladkiyan ghar ki izzat hoti hain" n so u r not supposed to do so, as if ladke ghar ki izzat nahin hote!!...But that is the way many middle class parents/spouses think even in this age. So, all v girls can do is to take one step and break one law/myth/obligation at a time.
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